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Have You Been Tried By The Fire…

Passing The Test

TGIF Today God Is First Volume 1, by Os Hillman

01-26-2014

The Lord has torn the kingdom out of your hands and given it to one of your neighbors – to David. – 1 Samuel 28:17b

 

When God anoints a person, a pattern of testing appears to take place at specific times in the leader’s life. God often takes each leader through four major tests to determine if that person will achieve God’s ultimate call on his or her life. The person’s response to these tests is the deciding factor in whether they can advance to the next level of responsibility in God’s Kingdom.

 

Control – Control is one of the first tests. Saul spent most of his time as king trying to prevent others from getting what he had. Saul never got to the place with God in which he was a grateful recipient of God’s goodness to him. Saul was a religious controller. This control led to disobedience and ultimately being rejected by God because Saul no longer was a vessel God could use.

 

Bitterness – Every major character in the Bible was hurt by another person at one time or another. Jesus was hurt deeply when Judas, a trusted follower, betrayed Him. Despite knowing this was going to happen, Jesus responded by washing Judas’ feet. Every anointed leader will have a Judas experience at one time or another. God watches us to see how we will respond to this test. Will we take up an offense? Will we retaliate? It is one of the most difficult tests to pass.

 

Power – Power is the opposite of servanthood. Jesus had all authority in Heaven and earth, so satan tempted Jesus at the top of the mountain to use His power to remove Himself from a difficult circumstance. How will we use the power and influence God has entrusted to us? Do we seek to gain more power? There is a common phrase in the investment community, “He who has the gold rules.” Jesus modeled the opposite. He was the ultimate servant leader.

 

Greed – This is a difficult one. Money has the ability to have great influence for either good or bad. When it is a focus in our life, it becomes a tool of destruction. When it is a by-product, it can become a great blessing. Many leaders started out well – only to be derailed once prosperity became a part of their life. There are thousands who can blossom spiritually in adversity; only a few can thrive spiritually under prosperity.

 

As leaders, we must be aware when we are being tested. You can be confident that each one of these tests will be thrown your way if God calls you for His purposes. Will you pass these tests? Ask for God’s grace today to walk through these tests victoriously.

 

Today God Is First (TGIF) devotional message, Copyright by Os Hillman, Marketplace Leaders.

It’s Never Too Late…

While being interviewed, a popular correspondent was asked about her children and the appearance of a softer side since becoming a parent.  The interviewer asked what changed.  The correspondent answered, she thought that she would never have a family. Many years prior,  she experienced a tragedy and thought having a family was impossible for her.  Then she said, never give up on your dreams, no matter how long it takes to reach them.

Although you may have heard these words before, let it serve as confirmation that God is still writing your story.  Delay is not denial. Rest assured,  the plan for your life will come to pass.  Kept striving to reach your dreams.  Everyone’s story is different, do not compare your life to others because they will never look the same.  Also, from her tragedy, she was forever changed.  When God changes your life, nothing is the same.  People, places, and things will change.  In order to get to the place He’s taking you, you must also emerge a new creature.  You have to trust that no matter what it looks like, God is still in control!

 

Philippians 1:6…Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ:

Do Right…

My community is gated and requires a security card to enter.  When I forget my gate card, I have to enter through the visitors lane and provide my ID, where I am going, and who I am visiting.  This is annoying but I appreciate the security it provides.  9 times out of 10 when I pulled up to the security guard and informed them that I live in the community, they would open the gate with no information and sometimes they did not look at my ID.  This was very upsetting because they do not know me and they did not follow the necessary procedures to ensure our safety.  I believe that the guards behaved this way because they did not want to upset me as a resident.

Situations like this occur in life daily.  People go against what they know is right to avoid upsetting others or “rub them the wrong way”.  Most times, we have clear directions as to what, how, and who we should carrying out assignments.  We are disobedient because we care about what others think.  We are to serve God, not man and EVERYTHING He does is for our good.  When you follow the instructions(procedures) that God has assigned, you will upset others BUT, God has laid out procedures to ensure your safety.

P.S.  Now when I forget my card, I let them ask me their standard questions instead of starting by telling them I live here.  When they get to the question who is  the resident, I tell them my name 🙂 …it makes me feel better about the situation! Why should I set them up to upset me?  *Let it marinate 🙂 *

I Know Nothing…Chrisette Michele

Sharing lyrics from one of my favorite songs…once you realize that you know nothing, you are open to learn everything 🙂
 
Come with me to find
What everybody wants in life.
Do you know where it hides?
I don’t.

Here I am one more time
With the same damn lines.
Is this really love?
Who knows.

I tried to understand
Who knows all there is to know?
Who knows how love is supposed to go?
Has somebody found it all?
Tell me please
Here I am down on the floor.
Am I doing this so wrong?
Tell me something if you know.
‘Cause I know nothing.

Everything feels so right
Yet everything feels so wrong
Will this always be my song?
Say no.

We fight and then we don’t
We laugh just to cope
Is this some sick joke?
Who knows.

I tried to understand
Who knows all there is to know?
Who knows how love is supposed to go?
Has somebody found it all?
Tell me please
Here I am down on the floor.
Am I doing this so wrong?
Tell me something if you know.
‘Cause I know nothing.

There’s gotta be a voice out there who answer prayers.
Answer me if You care.
‘Cause You know all there is know
You know how love supposed to go
And I know You found it all
So tell me now please.
Here I am down on the floor
I know I’m doing this so wrong
Tell me something cause You know
God I know nothing.

It’s About Us…

Tonight after Florida State won the BCS Championship, Jameis said he had to remember he has a team for a reason.  He went out in the first half trying to destroy the opponent himself, forgetting he did not have to fight this battle alone.

In life, God assigns us all the people and resources necessary to reach our destinies.  It is up to us to allow the people placed in our paths to fulfill their purpose.  Often times we cut off our blessing because we do not make our needs known.  God has already put someone in place to meet our needs but we try to do everything on our own.  Independence is a necessary trait but you must not let your independence hinder your dependence on God.

I am so thankful for my family and friends who stand in the gap for me.  My son is best, not because he’s perfect but because he is my biggest supporter and cheerleader.  He thinks I’m pretty awesome and randomly likes to tell me that he loves me.  As a parent you can only hope your children are proud of what you do and who you become.  My family and friends encourage me every step and always pray for me.  No matter what my profession is or how many times I stumble, they are there.  I am covered, God assembled the perfect group of imperfect people who I needed.

Always remember, you are not alone, you have a team for a reason.  Am I my brother’s keeper?

Chorus for today: “When he’s pushed to the edge, when he’s out on a ledge, can I help him to think with his heart.  When he’s wrong,  when he’s right, I’ll be there to remind him, that he’s made in the image of God.  When he’s struggles with troubles, he needs to know that his mistakes don’t define his life.  I’m a living example that there is a chance for redemption on the other side.
Am I my brother’s keeper? Yes I am!~IA

 

This Is My Life…

For well over a year I have stated numerous times, “this is not my life”.  Sometimes I have called it the twilight zone and in other times,  I have  waited for Ashton to tell me I have been punked.  BUT, what I’ve come to realize in my quiet time is that, this IS my life.

Often times it takes us longer to accept our positions than it does for others.  We hold on to little things that we feel make us who we are.  This can be relationships(any kind), habits, material possessions, or location.  The great thing is, when God decides to shift your life, you cannot predict what He will do.  I am constantly amazed and awed by what God chose to do in my life.  

As we grow and mature sometimes we experience separation from people, places, and things that are  familiar to us.  Embrace the place God has you in, He isn’t taking anything away from you that is attached to your destiny.  Those who are supposed transition with you will do so and those whose season has passed, they will fade away.

I’m in round four of a six round match.  My opponent is still an unknown but I have learned that I must accept the place that I’m in and acknowledge that the fight has already been fixed.  I know that God’s word will not return void.  There is no doubt that I am exactly where I need to be.  I had to accept the fact that, this is not a season of lack but of replenishment no matter what “they” say or how “it” may appear.  So as I start this round, I will now chant, THIS IS MY LIFE!!!

Chorus for today:  “Sight beyond what I see, you know what’s best for me.  Prepare my mind, prepare my heart for whatever comes, I’m gone’ be ready…” ~YA

 

 

 

 

New Life…

During an interview, a musician stated that he has already died and is now living his second life.

Often times we take for granted that tomorrow isn’t promised.  We don’t see the figurative bullets we’ve dodged or train-wrecks that have been diverted.  This particular person actually experienced a near death accident but for some, it’s the moment that you realized you wanted to give your life to God.  You were doing any and everything you wanted to do because you thought you were in control. But, there is a feeling so refreshing and satisfying  when we finally decide to accept that God is the beginning and the end of our lives.  This awakening will be met with hardship, pain, and obstacles.   You will see new enemies and less friends.  Just remember, the end goal is not to be perfect but to live your life with purpose.  There should be a boldness about you because you are now standing firm on the word of God.  The point he made was,  he is not even supposed to be here so he’s living his best life now.  To me that speaks volumes regarding what we as Christians are supposed to do.  When you gave your life to God, you made the choice to change and live your best life now.

So…what are you doing with your second chance to get it right?

Chorus for today:  So use me as you will, I’ll pay the price, ’cause made the ultimate sacrifice.  It’s all because of you, that I even have life and I’ll give my love, as a tribute, to how great you are…Sight beyond what I see, you know what’s best for me.  Prepare my mind, prepare my heart for whatever comes, I’m gone’ be ready~YA

 

Endless Love…

Love can never be described in words.
There is no set formula to make the equation equal.
There is only a heart and the beauty of its pureness.
Many times we have walked down this road to nowhere but
The love we share has never changed.
The beauty of love is that it evolves.
I have no regrets, what we had was heaven-sent.
Our absence from one another has not changed our love.
I once loved you…Now, I love the memory of you.
 
 
Chorus for the day:  “I know if I pick up this phone, write this letter, send this two-way. I know I’m gonna say some things, I know you gonna say some things that we both don’t mean to say…But the reality is honestly…you where never good for me and I was never good for you. ~Jill Scott

Sr…

We’ve always been two different people, moving in two separate directions;
Separation is nothing new to us but this time it’s solely by God’s discretion.
 
Sharing a part of my life with you was predestined;
It had to happen, to show us both our imperfections.
 
From our intersection, blossomed a handsome boy;
He is truly a gift, a great joy.
 
You always wanted something different but never could reach that place;
Now you have eternal peace that nothing on earth could replace.
 
The ghost that you were trying to outrun can no longer haunt your thoughts;
You are now free from your past, no longer bound by the taunts.
 
 

Blogging from 30,000+ ft.

While traveling today, many thoughts traveled through my mind.  As we prepared for takeoff, I stared out of the window.  I begin to notice subtle things like the ridges in the runway.  It seemed like I could feel every single one of them.  Then it was the speed in which we prepared for takeoff.  As things outside of the plane appeared to zoom by, the plane steadily built up speed to climb.  Once we were in the air, I felt the pull from reaching higher altitudes.  Finally in the air at our desired elevation, the pilot says you can now move about the cabin.

As I took in all these steps, at each interval, I thought about life.

From birth, like a plane, we are molded and conditioned to survive in the world that surrounds us.  Our exteriors are designed so that we can endure different climates.  As the plane made its way down the runway, the ridges in the pavement shook the plane but did not permanently harm it.  In life we too experience rough patches along the way that shake us.  Disappoints, pain, heartache, etc., none of us are immune BUT just like the plane; these things don’t cause permanent harm.

When the plane increased speed, you could see the outer surrounding begins to zoom by.  Although it seemed we were passing everything in sight, we were working up momentum to reach our destination.  On our separate journeys through life, at times it may seem as though people and things are passing you by. Always remember, your journey is unique and some things that passed you were for your good.  They had to pass you by so that you could reach your destination.

As the plane climbed to higher altitudes, there was a strong pull.  It felt as though it was fighting gravity to get to the desired height.  At times when you are working toward your goals/dreams/desires, it feels like the weight of the world is pushing against you.  Every step closer is met by force.  The key is to never give up.  Even when it feels like you can’t go another step, keep pushing.  The path to your destiny won’t always be smooth.  Perseverance is vital.

Finally, after reaching the desired altitude, we can move around.  When you reach your desired situation in life, you have the freedom to move around.  Now it’s time to seek balance.  Life was meant to be lived, not survived.

Everything that God made is good.  You should always see the beauty in your journey.  It may not always look pretty, things may not happen when you want them to BUT God has already made provisions for you and everything you experience is just bringing you a step closer to His vision for your life.

LIVE LOVE LAUGH WITHOUT LIMITS

Chorus for today: “There’s always gonna be another mountain, I’m always gonna want to make it move.  Always gonna be an uphill battle, sometimes you’re gonna have to lose.  Ain’t how fast I get there,  ain’t about  what’s waiting on the other side.  It’s the climb”~MC